Need Advice - Stagette tonight!?

Any of you that have read my previous questions will know and understand this has been one thing after another.





I am unable to attend my best friends wedding (read previous posts if you like) so I volunteered to host the stagette due to her not really knowing any of the wedding party. I was supposed to converse with the new MOH in details. She wanted a limo, a pre-party and then the bar. The cost of the stagette was rocketing and I told the new MOH I couldnt afford this much. So we worked out a solution to cost. I was to pay a portion of the limo/drinks but I would through the pre-party and supply food/decor.





So Tues. I had a big dental appoint. Lots of work done. Wed. I woke up with a sore throat. I emailed bride Wed night - told her about dentist and said it may be that or I may be sick. If I am getting sick do you still want me there since wedding is so close. Didnt hear back. Thought she hadnt read the email. Comps went down at work and I had to pull OT time Thurs.

Need Advice - Stagette tonight!?
Your "friend" is being anything but. What a horrible person the bride is! At the very least, she (the bride...since she was supposed to be your friend, after all) should have called you and asked you how you were feeling....but I guess she never learned tact or consideration. What a bunch of peevy b!tches.





Sorry, but I would say take all the stuff over to the place and just walk in, dump it in the middle of the room, say "have a nice f**king life" and walk out. You don't need these sorts of people in your life. How RUDE!





This is the exact reason I DESPISE "stagette" or bachelorette parties. And it's also the reason I hate how catty and snotty women get when they're getting married. What the hell gets into people these days?


And before anyone assumes differently, I have been married twice, and neither time was I EVER a freakish jerk like so many bridezillas are!!
Reply:wow thats a bit messed up.I would go and i would there any way to help decorate. Who cares what they think.I would bring all that food you had too.This party is for the bride...not her friends.Do your thing and dont worry about the haters
Reply:Rise above it-don't stoop to the level of all those girls when you and your husband are both working so hard to buld a good life. I know you feel a sense of obligation because she has been in your life so long, but its time you close this chapter and move forward.


As for the extra food, hopefully you can freeze it for another occasion, but if not, why not have a nice little dinner at your house for your husband and family and maybe some other friends who have nothing to do with this whole fiasco. Lord knows you deserve to treat youself to a fun night off.