Saturday, November 14, 2009

I need a good Lawyer!!?

My ex wife has been living with her new boyfriend and they are engaged for almost two years. They have not gotten married nor does it seem like they are going to. My child support was built around her being a single mother of two - on her salary (schoolteacher) - paying all her own expenses. She actually brought me to court almost two years ago to get an increase - which she did.


Now she is living with him (he is a doctor) - still making her salary - has less expenses (no car payment) and my support is till at the higher rate.


Do I have any options??


Note: She moved away from me 3 years ago (out of state) and I had to sell our house and move also so I could be near my kids (big expense for me and higher cost of living adjustment). In addition to my support - I pay for their Health and Dental Ins. AND she still asks me to pay for other items such as back to school clothes, supplies, etc.


Help me please. I cannot put any money away for my Kid's future.

I need a good Lawyer!!?
You can go and get an adjustment on your child support, but you will still owe child support due from your earnings. That is what they base how much you have to pay. A man or woman that makes 20,000 a year will owe less than a man or woman that makes 70,000 a year. It's all about the math. Even if she married Donald Trump, you still have your obligation to support your kids.


I know how frustrating this is to you, but you do love your children. They will know you as their Father and will always grow to love and respect you for supporting them the most you possibly can. I know in my state..they can take up to 60% of income to due child support. Investigate. Know your rights. Depending on the laws in your state...You may be able to get child support lowered strictly through child support enforcement. You may not have to hire a lawyer at all. BUT! Anytime you fight a legal battle...It is best to have a lawyer on your side. Try to obtain a non-disgruntled outlook on this issue. I know it's going to be hard, but you can obtain that in time. You're going to have to deal with this obligation for many years to come. GOOD LUCK!
Reply:Just calla round your town
Reply:her bf is a doctoor. get a lawyer and take her to court to get every penny you can.
Reply:Ok i feel really bad for you.
Reply:You need to go back to court.You may want to bring proof she is living with someone.See if you can find a phone number,or something showing both their names listed at the same address.
Reply:Oh, you poor obsessed child support payer. It will never matter what he makes, it is what you and your ex make. It isn't your business if she NEVER marries again, just keep on paying the support for YOUR children. This is what you are supposed to do.
Reply:The title of your question is "I need a good lawyer," which is the answer to your question: You need a good lawyer.
Reply:you should go to www.freeadvice.com, there are plenty of people that are capable to answer this - retired lawyers, paralegals, etc.. post the question there
Reply:What state do you live in? Check out the link below, hopefully this can help you.





Hope this helps





Good luck
Reply:You will have to provide evidence that she is co-habiting with the Doctor. This could be provided by a private detective. Once you have the evidence you can apply to have your payments drastically reduced................


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